I'm not going to war. I'll go to war for my community and Patricia, who works for me... but I'm not going to go to war with you about my business or myself, because I know there's no way you could win.
You don't have to match their energy. That's the important part. If you're going to reply back or if you feel like you have to... you can come back... We hope we're still going to extend that offer to you...
I can clarify for you if I think you've misunderstood, but I will never defend myself against someone who thinks I'm an idiot... I will clarify, for example, actually, just yesterday... So I just clarified for that person because my reputation is very important.
I think I have a superpower in turning people around... People that ask for refunds normally come back and buy higher-priced items from me or they decide, 'Oh, I don't want to cancel at all. Let me re-up.'
I usually let something sit for a couple hours, up to 24 hours... I cannot just sit back and, you know, let people walk all over me.
If somebody's coming at you sideways, you don't owe them anything, you can straight delete, right? If they're just, you know, 'You're an a-hole,' or 'I don't like you,' or whatever.
When you can afford it, please hire someone like Patricia, so you don't have to see that crap, right? It really does affect your energy... So when the time is right, when your wallet is ready, hire a customer service rep and let them know the boundaries.
I also find making videos... people are very disarmed. When you make a video and you look right directly at that camera and speak what you got to speak. They're incredibly disarmed, and I've never had anyone come back with more anger.
If you are insulting my product, if you're insulting my business, my policies, the people that work for me or the people that are in my community, you're darn tootin' I got something to say about that... I will always defend my community. I will always defend my employees, and I will always defend my business.
You do not owe anyone your time when they are coming at you sideways, right? If they're not respecting you, you don't really owe them any respect. You are a business owner. So if somebody's coming at you sideways, you don't owe them anything, you can straight delete.