There's something that's happening in my nervous system, and I just have to be curious. And if I get to a place where I'm like, I'm just not taking action.
Takeaway:...that's uncomfortable to ask somebody to pay me a large amount of money up front. And so as I was doing these things for myself, I was like, wait a minute, if this was hard for me, it's got to be hard for somebody else.
Takeaway:And you know, as a business owner, when we get this really positive feedback, why is it sometimes we can't accept it? Why is it sometimes we can't embody that and go, yeah. I'm really good at this, you know, why do we do that?
Takeaway:So understanding that this is a topic that's been around for a long time, there's a lot of different ways that people approach it. This is just one of the many ways that, and for me, it made sense.
Takeaway:When we embody that our nervous system... we're programming happy thoughts, we're programming the things that we're good at, and then that reflects in how we behave.
Takeaway:My coach, she's like, 'OK, let's stay in that space, like stay with your throat, and I want you to describe to me what's happening. What are you feeling? What are you noticing?' And really tapping into that feeling.
Takeaway:So... Now I need to share my journey and myself with the world. And when I started to think about that, that's when I started to get uncomfortable. And realized that I needed to heal some wounds that I had from being a kid in order to speak up, in order to share parts of me that would resonate with my audience.
Takeaway:Once I realized, 'If I speak up, I will die,' she said, 'OK, now how can you change that thought and reprogram it?' And I came up with, 'If I speak, it's healthy for me to speak up. It's a good thing.' I just reversed that. And all of a sudden, I was like, not afraid to share what it is.
Takeaway:It's been challenging for me. I need to investigate that. Why is it challenging to, like, what's going on there, that writing a newsletter once a month is really challenging for you. I do a weekly podcast... So what is it that might be happening?
Takeaway:When I started looking at myself and saying, 'OK, what can I say to people that's going to resonate with them?' When I started doing that is when I started realizing that I needed healing, because when I started to speak up... I was like, 'Oh, yeah, cause this was hard for me.'
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